Why Do Men Seem Intimidated By Confident Women? Pt. 2

It would be totally unfair to blame confident women for not wanting to get involved with a man who is intimidated by her.  Intimidation often begins within.  It represents a lack of self-confidence.  Confident women appreciate confident men.  Your level of confidence tends to be used as a measure of success or your ability to handle business.  Women want to feel that you can handle your business in “many” ways.  When they don’t see the confidence, they move on.  Some are more harsh than others in the methods.  But, it is, what it is.

It is you not believing in yourself that gets you turned down.  What’s worse is not giving yourself an opportunity to succeed.  The worst that could happen with a “mature” woman is for her to say “No” or “Sorry, I’m not interested.”  Believe it or not, the more no’s you hear, the more confident you become.  You realize that hearing no isn’t as bad as it seems.  Simply believe in yourself, change your approach and learn as you go.  Perhaps even ask someone that says no, why she did.  She may appreciate the sincerity of your effort and say yes.

Despite the title, this also applies to women who are intimidated by confident men. Consider the list below to overcome your intimidation or lack of self-confidence:

1.  Understand how you add value to your relationships

2. Know that you are just as important as the next person

3. Have self-respect despite your profession and what others think

4. Know there is someone specially made just for you

5. Have a plan for your life!

There truly is no reason to be intimidated by a confident woman.  They want attention just as badly as you want to give it.  Don’t take it personal and get offended when you hear a respectful no.  Don’t let it make you afraid to try again later.  Be confident in your approach.  Believe in yourself.  Know that you are a wonderful person that deserves respect and love.  Finding a person to date or a mate is like auditioning for a role.  It isn’t that you don’t have the ability, you just aren’t right for that particular part, or person.  Ever wonder why someone you consider to be unattractive gets the good looking girl?  He was confident!!!  Women like that.  Good conversation with confidence is the key.

The no you hear could be God’s way of saving you from a lifetime of agony and pain.

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