Surprise, Surprise… A Just Because Gift!

Nothing says I love you like an unexpected gift or act of appreciation.  On your way home tomorrow, think of an affordable gift that you can buy your spouse or special someone.  Go and buy the new cd of his or her favorite artist.  Stuffed animals work great!  Think of something they would appreciate and [...]

Why You Need Premarital Counseling…

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Marriage can be a consuming fire of discontent or an unquenchable blaze of love.  Your approach and preparation will be the deciding factor. Let us first define what counseling is? Counseling – something that provides direction or advice as to a decision or course of action Counsel – give advice to When preparing for marriage, [...]

Consider The Rain Perspective

We’ve all heard the old adage, “When it rains, it pours.” This rain usually refers to some unforeseen chain of events that seem to work their way into our lives when we least expect them to. Setting goals and making plans are implanted in our minds as critical steps to success in life. But what [...]

How To Build A Relationship That Lasts Pt. 3

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Accept & embrace his or her uniqueness! This always presents a challenge when we don’t damper down that inner tendency to feel that our way is the right way. If you plan to build a lasting relationship, it is imperative to realize that your way may be a good way, but isn’t the only way. [...]

How To Build A Relationship That Lasts Pt. 2

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Now that you have thrown away the list of requirements or “wish list”, let’s go to the next step in building a lasting relationship. Let them love and respect you as a person first. Don’t be too salty – As Christians we are considered by the bible as the salt of the earth. That means [...]

Should I Date A Man With No Religious Beliefs?

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If you have Christian beliefs I would strongly suggest you consider finding someone that believes the same thing. A relationship should be fun and enjoyable. If he/she is pessimistic, that in itself is no fun, despite their beliefs. It is important for you to hold on to your faith and not be swayed by another [...]

Why Do Men Seem Intimidated By Confident Women?

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There are two primary reasons to consider when it is truly confidence that intimidates men: First, men who are intimidated by confident women lack confidence in themselves.  A lack of love and encouragement from family or friends causes men, and women alike, to withdraw into a shell.  People never laugh at their jokes, criticize their [...]

How To Build A Relationship That Lasts Pt. 1

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Not long ago I spoke to a group of singles about finding and building a strong relationship with that special someone. There were a few things impressed upon my heart as vital elements required in building a successful relationship. Of course this list doesn’t account for every possibility there is, but it is very solid [...]

Perspective On Men Cheating

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Picture this! A man meets a woman and they establish common ground. Emotions are aroused and the two begin to visualize themselves as one. During this process a commitment is proclaimed and neither desires another.  While visiting your sweetheart one day he receives a call.  It’s the woman you heard about. “He’s just like the [...]

Do Your Gifts Mean I Love You Or I Had To?

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Gifts are typically seen as expressions of love, respect, honor and, or affection.  They should be given from the sincerity of one’s heart because of the love or admiration of the recipient.  The act and thought of gift giving tends to take on new meaning when people get involved in relationships.  Here is a fresh [...]